Searching for a single gay man. Exchange and friedship.

53 years old, I am a mature single man living in Madrid, I am a native Spanish and I am looking for a exchange in a serious way English/French with a single gay man or a lesbian woman, not only exchanging but to get to know each other and become friends or more.I am a lonely man, serious, not into gayscene, not into nightlife and fiesta.
I am calm, homelike, calm, I really like the movies, music, medicine, talk about everything, tranquility, I hate crowds and frivolous people without personality. Only open to gay or lesbian who have the same tastes as me.